cajole, coax, soft-soap, blandish, wheedle mean to influence or persuade by pleasing words or actions. cajole suggests the deliberate use of flattery to persuade in the face of reluctance or reasonable objections.
cajoled him into cheating on the final exam coax implies gentle and persistent words or actions employed to produce a desired effect.
coaxed the cat out of the tree soft-soap refers to using smooth and somewhat insincere talk usually for personal gain.
politicians soft-soaping eligible voters blandish implies a more open desire to win a person over by effusive praise and affectionate actions.
legislators blandished with promises of support wheedle suggests more strongly than cajole the use of seductive appeal or artful words in persuading.
hucksters wheedling her life's savings out of her
Wheedle Comes Up Often in Literature
Wheedle has been a part of the English lexicon since the mid-17th century, though no one is quite sure how the word made its way into English. (It has been suggested that the term may have derived from an Old English word that meant "to beg," but this is far from certain.) Once established in the language, however, wheedle became a favorite of some of the language's most illustrious writers. Wheedle and related forms appear in the writings of Wordsworth, Dickens, Kipling, Dryden, Swift, Scott, Tennyson, and Pope, among others.
Examples of wheedle in a Sentence
He wheedled quite a bit of money from her.
She pleaded and wheedled, but I wouldn't be swayed.
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