shy, bashful, diffident, modest, coy mean not inclined to be forward. shy implies a timid reserve and a shrinking from familiarity or contact with others.
shy with strangers bashful implies a frightened or hesitant shyness characteristic of childhood and adolescence.
a bashful boy out on his first date diffident stresses a distrust of one's own ability or opinion that causes hesitation in acting or speaking.
felt diffident about raising an objection modest suggests absence of undue confidence or conceit.
modest about her success coy implies a pretended shyness.
put off by her coy manner
What's An Antonym of diffident?
Diffident and confident are antonyms, but both have a lot to do with how much trust you have in yourself. Etymology reveals the role that that underlying trust plays in the two terms. Confident and diffident both trace back to the Latin verb fidere, which means "to trust." Diffident arose from a combination of fidere and the prefix dis-, meaning "the absence of," and it has been used since the 15th century to refer to individuals lacking in self-trust. Confident arose from confidere, a term created by combining fidere with the intensifying prefix con-. That term has been used for self-trusting folks since at least the late 16th century. By the way, fidere puts the trust in several other English words too, including fidelity and fiduciary.
Examples of diffident in a Sentence
Being suspicious of conventions, demotic equals were often at a loss in their daily encounters: shall one act diffident or clamant of one's rights?— Jacques Barzun, From Dawn to Decadence, 2000Whatever made him diffident at the prospect of having a military strike ordered in his defense, he kept it to himself.— George Stephanopoulos, Newsweek, 15 Mar. 1999"It's Indianapolis 500," Andrew said with a polite smile, pleasing me with his diffident correction.— Camille Minichino, The Lithium Murder, 1999 … a boy of 8 or 13, gazing foursquare at the camera, diffident but showing off, petulant but vulnerable …— Walker Percy, New York Times Book Review, 11 Oct. 1987
She was diffident about stating her opinion.
for someone who makes a living performing for other people, the actress is remarkably diffident in real life
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Middle English, borrowed from Latin diffīdent-, diffīdens "distrustful, lacking in confidence," from present participle of diffīdere "to lack confidence (in), have no trust (in)," from dif-, assimilated form of dis-dis- + fīdere "to trust, have confidence (in)," going back to Indo-European *bhei̯dh- "trust, entrust" faith entry 1